If you’ve ever felt guilty for eating a cookie, skipped meals to “make up” for a big dinner, or believed carbs were the enemy—you’re not alone. These thoughts aren’t random; they’re the result of diet culture, a powerful social force that shapes how we think about food, bodies, and health.
Diet culture is sneaky. It masquerades as “wellness,” “clean eating,” or “discipline,” but at its core, it promotes a harmful belief: that thinner is better, and that we must earn or restrict food to be worthy.
Let’s break down some of the most common nutrition myths you may have learned from diet culture—and why they’re not helping you build a healthy relationship with food.
The truth: Carbohydrates are your body’s preferred source of energy—especially for your brain. Whole grains, fruits, legumes, and even simple carbs like white bread or pasta can all have a place in a balanced eating pattern. Demonizing carbs can lead to fear, cravings, and eventually binge-restrict cycles.
The truth: Your body doesn’t “shut down” at night. What matters most is your total intake and nourishment over time—not the clock. Restricting food at night often leads to nighttime overeating or waking up ravenous, and it disconnects you from your body’s natural hunger cues.
The truth: Health is not a number on a scale. People of all sizes can experience health or illness. In fact, the pursuit of thinness can sometimes lead to disordered behaviors that harm health. A weight-inclusive approach focuses on behaviors like joyful movement, stress management, and balanced nutrition—rather than shrinking your body.
The truth: “Clean” is a marketing term, not a scientific one. Labeling food as “clean” implies that other foods are “dirty” or bad—which adds moral judgment to something that should be neutral. All foods have a place in a nourishing relationship with food. Yes, whole foods are great—but eating a bag of chips doesn’t make you unhealthy or immoral.
The truth: Trying to control food too tightly often backfires. Restriction increases preoccupation with food and can lead to feelings of being “out of control” when you finally allow yourself to eat. Trusting your body and practicing permission to eat is actually a key part of intuitive, sustainable eating.
The truth: Your body needs fuel every day—regardless of your activity level. Food is not a reward or a punishment. It’s your body’s basic need. Exercise should be a form of self-care, not a compensation strategy.
The truth: Willpower isn’t the issue—biological and psychological deprivation are. Your body is wired to protect you from starvation. When you chronically undereat or label foods as off-limits, your body pushes back with cravings and obsession. This isn’t weakness—it’s survival.
Healing your relationship with food means unlearning the rules and rigidity that diet culture taught you. That can feel scary—but also incredibly freeing. You don’t need to follow arbitrary food rules to be healthy, worthy, or enough.
Real nourishment is about flexibility, pleasure, consistency, and self-compassion—not fear or control.
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Thank you, Mikayla, for writing such a thoughtful & important blog and for all you do for us at Meant To Eat!